You don't know me and this "About Me" section won't help you with that as much as the site as a whole will. This isn't an "About" in the traditional sense, this "About" is just as much about who the site is for, the readers, as its subject, me.
This site was made with my "family" in mind as well as the friends who need it. People who are supposed to know me, THINK they know me, but have tragically proven time and again they don't know me at all. For those of you who clearly lost the plot long ago, I give you this site so I don't have to waste any more of my time.
For the people who continue to draw erroneous ASSumptions about my character, my education, my drive and my intentions, among other things. That's your limitation, not mine, and I'm not beholden to anyone for any explanations, this site is a kindness, from me to you.
I'd rather go fishing and hook giant leeches all day in the rain on an icy lake in a canoe than keep up with the errant ASSumptions that have been and continue to be made about me. I sort of get it, I don't "look the part" of anything, particularly into the boxes under the labels you've provided in your short-sightedness.
I guess when people don't easily fit into the cut-outs people create in their minds for them it's sometimes just easier to draw assumptions and cast them aside. I've created this site so I don't have to speak to any of the people who have done that to me with any frequency.
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For anyone who wasn't directed here by me as a loving means to get you off my back and have instead shown up out of morbid curiosity, I salute you!
Welcome to the Winter of My Discombobulation.
Welcome, to the most mediocre story ever told.
The past does shape a person. They say trials are like fire, they can destroy or strengthen you and the same fire that melts butter, hardens steel. Whether one melts like a grilled Gouda or becomes as solid as Rearden Steel is a choice each person makes. I've chosen strength.
Outlined here are the series of events that derailed too many aspects of my life all at once for me to not have experienced a set back, including, but not limited to a friggin' GLOBAL PANDEMIC.
I know, I know, "It was hard for everyone." If your experience of the pandemic includes being homeless throughout it, we'll talk, if it's just you being ungrateful for what you hoard, I mean have, keep it to yourself. If that is offensive to you, ask yourself why.
Interestingly, due to the extra time I had during the pandemic, I realized that this goes way further back than I at first realized. Clear back into my childhood, or lack thereof. For the sake of context, I'll be including some of that.
What I won't do is set myself up for disaster again, or for hurt again, or ASSumptive judgement and being thrown away like stinky trash, AGAIN.
So here is where you can come to find out what you want to know without having to call, please, don't call, I am not the dog shit on the bottom of your shoe.
Thanks.
This site was made with my "family" in mind as well as the friends who need it. People who are supposed to know me, THINK they know me, but have tragically proven time and again they don't know me at all. For those of you who clearly lost the plot long ago, I give you this site so I don't have to waste any more of my time.
For the people who continue to draw erroneous ASSumptions about my character, my education, my drive and my intentions, among other things. That's your limitation, not mine, and I'm not beholden to anyone for any explanations, this site is a kindness, from me to you.
I'd rather go fishing and hook giant leeches all day in the rain on an icy lake in a canoe than keep up with the errant ASSumptions that have been and continue to be made about me. I sort of get it, I don't "look the part" of anything, particularly into the boxes under the labels you've provided in your short-sightedness.
I guess when people don't easily fit into the cut-outs people create in their minds for them it's sometimes just easier to draw assumptions and cast them aside. I've created this site so I don't have to speak to any of the people who have done that to me with any frequency.
...
For anyone who wasn't directed here by me as a loving means to get you off my back and have instead shown up out of morbid curiosity, I salute you!
Welcome to the Winter of My Discombobulation.
Welcome, to the most mediocre story ever told.
The past does shape a person. They say trials are like fire, they can destroy or strengthen you and the same fire that melts butter, hardens steel. Whether one melts like a grilled Gouda or becomes as solid as Rearden Steel is a choice each person makes. I've chosen strength.
Outlined here are the series of events that derailed too many aspects of my life all at once for me to not have experienced a set back, including, but not limited to a friggin' GLOBAL PANDEMIC.
I know, I know, "It was hard for everyone." If your experience of the pandemic includes being homeless throughout it, we'll talk, if it's just you being ungrateful for what you hoard, I mean have, keep it to yourself. If that is offensive to you, ask yourself why.
Interestingly, due to the extra time I had during the pandemic, I realized that this goes way further back than I at first realized. Clear back into my childhood, or lack thereof. For the sake of context, I'll be including some of that.
What I won't do is set myself up for disaster again, or for hurt again, or ASSumptive judgement and being thrown away like stinky trash, AGAIN.
So here is where you can come to find out what you want to know without having to call, please, don't call, I am not the dog shit on the bottom of your shoe.
Thanks.